Alex Da Silva Arrested
If you watch So You Think You Can Dance?, then you know one of the show's choreographers Alex Da Silva. Well, you don't know him THAT well since I'm sure you never thought this motherfucker has rapey hands. Allegedly. The LAPD threw Alex into a jail cell after four of his dance students came forward claiming he had sexually assaulted them between May 2003 and March of this year.
The four women said Alex lured them back to his house in North Hollywood, tricked them into going into his bedroom and then raped them. The LAPD also said they think there's other victims out there.
Alex was arrested on Saturday and is currently marinating his sick ass in a cell on $3.8 million.
You can't trust a bitch with fugly eyebrows who teaches salsa dancing on reality TV. This is so fucking random and gross. I feel like I should burst into one of Mary Murphy's signature screeches of terror.
Source: Associated Press
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Why would they go to his house/bedroom??? Damn I feel bad for those girls. Alex (my namesake) you are one sick sob. Mary Murphy is more annoying than Paula Abdul.
What was it -Lesbian 'rape'?
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KD I can't wait for SYTYCD to start! I freaking LOVE that show, so so so much better than Idol IMO
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I love Mary Murphy!! She is almost as crazy as Paula. Only she isn't medicated and makes more sense.
Good point made here by joe shmoe, because sometimes it isn't about the woman in question being dense or whatever. Pulled this about acquaintance rape, which is very common and definitely applicable in this case (they were his students and like J.S. said, probably trusted him at the end of the day he abused his position and used it as an angle to take advantage of these women) :
"Over 80% of rape victims know their attackers. As children you were warned not to talk to strangers. The fact is you are more likely to be assaulted by someone you know: a friend, date, ex-boyfriend, classmate, neighbor, relative or employer.
Acquaintance rape and date rape are more common than left-handedness or heart attacks or alcoholism. (Warshaw, 1988)
Acquaintance rape is using physical force, emotional bargaining, blackmail or mind games to force sexual intercourse, fondling, kissing, holding ... any sexual contact forced on you by a stranger or someone you know. If it is against your will, it is against the law.
One of the most common types of acquaintance rape is date rape. If you are a female between the ages of 16-24, you run the greatest risk of being raped by a date. The use of alcohol or drugs also increases your risk. In one study, 74% of the men and 55% of the women had been drinking or using drugs prior to the sexual assault.
Date rapes often occur as a result of misunderstood sex role behaviors and/or communication styles. Males who regard sex as "scoring" and are sexually aggressive often believe "no" can be changed to "yes" with a little more persuasion or force. Females frequently say "no" too softly or indirectly because they don't want to hurt feelings or jeopardize a relationship."
Well this is something for Ripleys - fish claiming that a sister 'raped' them???!!!!!!
I've been in the dance business for most of my life. This is soooo common with the male instructors. Not all of them however. The better they are at dancing, the more they assault women AND get away with it. Again, not all of them...only the sleezy ones and I can spot them a mile away. It's sickening. Most of the women are simply mesmerized by these guys and sleep with them only to find out they have been used, but when a woman says "no" to one of these guys, they don't like it because the guys think they own all the women in the world, all of them want him and "don't they know who I am" goes through these guys heads and they just try to take it.
If you are one of these guys, WE DON'T WANT YOU! If you are one of these stupid girls that fall for these sleezy, probably v.d. ridden men, WISE UP!
Ever saw a one sorta like this one on
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It's where romancing with the rich singles!
I know this guy! I've known him for years..and a I got tons of phone calls from all of my old friends today. He used to live in San Francisco and we all used to hang out. He was definitely a whore, but I never saw this coming! Still, when I called a couple of my old girlfriends that he had dated, they didn't seem very surprised at all but said that the girls must have been pretty naive and passive, too. Apparently, he's pretty aggressive but backs off if the girl really stands her ground. So, yeah, he's a scumbag but...as many have said..how does a girl get "lured" into a guy's bedroom? It's gross all around.
There's nothing on Smoking Gun about this.
Being "tricked" into someone's bedroom?
Come on........that's a space for sleeping, or screwing. Was it "nap time"??? Was ETOH/drugs involved?
Years ago, my friend and I were partying at a club, and at the end of the night, she picked up some guy. (looking for Mr. Goodbar) I had a bad feeling about it. We lived in the same apartment complex. I came home, went to bed, then decided to check on her. Good thing. He was scaring the hell out of her. I arrived, told him he needed to leave, which he did. She was grateful. Woman and men can have risky behavior. She continued to pick up strangers, late at night.
Some think having sex, means one is desirous, attractive and mentally gratifying. Nope. It's a physical act in those situations.
He works for FOX... 'nuff said.
Submitted by joe shmoe on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 8:30pm.
Submitted by Tigerlilly on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 8:28pm.
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Hahahahahaa....I always have to be held down for a waxing. It HURTS!!
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The trick is never do that shit sober! Oh, and never do that shit to yourself drunk! I lost half an eyebrow that way...I had to cut some serious bangs after that mess... :-O Word....
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Sorry, Roger, you are tiger now...
Submitted by Tigerlilly on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 8:28pm.
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Hahahahahaa....I always have to be held down for a waxing. It HURTS!!
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C'mon, those charges against him are false. When have you EVER known a straight choreographer ????
Meh, that 'mo prolly held a few bitches down and
waxed they eyebrows against they will, then said "Biotch, you deserved it...."
I mean, look at his eyebrows...Do you think without waxin' he don't sport no "uni"? Do you think without trimming he ain't got some Andy Rooney, mad scientist shit goin' on? Hell fuckin' yeah he does....
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Submitted by xerquina on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 8:17pm.
i would like to know how he tricked women into his bedroom ,too. did he leave a trail of candy, loony toons style?
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He probably told them that his Fred Astaire memorabilia was in there, along with a ballroom dance floor and lots of costumes to try on.
Submitted by xerquina on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 8:17pm.
Submitted by Sheeps on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 8:14pm.
Yes what kind of lure did he use for the bedroom?
A free "tip" on dancing? what!
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Pick up your socks and drop your slots, we're going to a party.
His mugshot is creepy as hell! If he's guilty, I hope he is sent to jail for a long time. Don't drop the soap, asshole!
i would like to know how he tricked women into his bedroom ,too. did he leave a trail of candy, loony toons style?
Here's Alex teaching one student:
http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-dasilva6-2009apr06,0,971509.stor...
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Submitted by madam s. on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 8:02pm.
If more girls saw the 80's educational film "Dirty Dancing" they would know that nothing but heartache and trouble can come out of the salsa.
hahahaha. It's right there in the title, isn't it?
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Submitted by TITS on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 8:05pm.
With a name like TITS, any pizza you want.
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"I think we'll need some more FBI guys."
I am sure it is all quite innocent, he was probably teaching them the Lambada, which we all know is the 'Forbidden Dance"
Submitted by Mr. President on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:26pm.
Which is why I'm pretty safe from any rape accusations. Any girl that falls for the "wanna come to my place for a pizza and a fuck" line should definitely know what she's getting herself into. What? You don't like pizza?
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what kind of pizza?
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Tigerlilly exposed!!!1!
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If more girls saw the 80's educational film "Dirty Dancing" they would know that nothing but heartache and trouble can come out of the salsa.
Submitted by devilgirl on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:47pm.
Ok, I have a question, but how do you get "tricked" into going into someone's bedroom? I am sure he is a sleazy rapist, but I am just not sure how one hets tricked that way.
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A lot of times people (ok: women) get talked into doing things that instinctively they feel uncomfortable about, but they're not assertive enough to voice their fear. These women were his students and knew him and probably trusted him. He cooked up some stupid ploy and they fell for it, because they trusted him, perhaps they thought that he was a nice guy and he would never hurt them. And he could have played on that: "C'mon! What's the matter? You know me, just come here for a sec,I want to show you something.." etc etc or some variation on that theme.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5gN6ESJxlc&feature=related
Submitted by devilgirl on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:45pm.
So You Think You Can Rape?
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA sweet Mary fairy!
hahahahhahahahahahah guys! The Paris fan is back! hahahahahhaha
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If I was your girl, the things I'd do to you
I'd make you call out my name, I'd ask who it belongs to
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Ok, I have a question, but how do you get "tricked" into going into someone's bedroom? I am sure he is a sleazy rapist, but I am just not sure how one hets tricked that way.
I agree mike, I know plenty of girls from all over with similar stories.
Even in college, I thought nothing of hanging out with 6 guys in a room. They were my friends. I am lucky I knew good people.....some girls aren't as fortunate. Scary.
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If I was your girl, the things I'd do to you
I'd make you call out my name, I'd ask who it belongs to
-Janet Jackson "If"
So You Think You Can Rape?
Submitted by EvilShoe on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:39pm.
Submitted by parissucksliterally on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:24pm
Those are fucked-up stories, but the really fucked-up thing is that every girl I've ever known, from every background, has one similar.
It sucks growing up female just about everywhere in the world.
No snark, just sadness.
Here Sugar:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EZZnP7nbvxk
Submitted by parissucksliterally on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:24pm.
Damn. Most just know when something isn't right...
When I was a teen, my friend Karina and I were at the mall. My bike got stolen, and we had to walk back to her house on this street. We stopped at this business and sat on the stairs. This guy came out of the woods with just shorts on, he started asking questions and dumbass Karina was telling him the bike was stolen etc... You can guess, he said he saw the bike in the woods and he would help us get it and to c'mon. YEAH RIGHT. I was like "Karina, I hear your mom calling..." she totally bought the whole lie from him, and was trying to walk in the woods with him. I started yelling and walking away, eventually she ran back to me.
While he was talking to us, he was squatted down, and everything was hanging out (peen) of his cutoff shorts...
Submitted by Pauly Shore on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:34pm.
Dancing Queeeeeeeeen
Laughs like a hyeeeeeeeen'
Probly has a peeeen!
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Sorry. Bells are not ringing over here.
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Submitted by Sugaroo on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:30pm.
BTW, who is Mary Murphy? Should I know?
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Dancing Queeeeeeeeen
Laughs like a hyeeeeeeeen'
Probly has a peeeen!
angel, I still think it was one of the dumbest things I have ever done.
I have been glad that twice this week, I was learning how to get out from under a man pinning me down....good stuff. I know how to cause some serious damage now.
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If I was your girl, the things I'd do to you
I'd make you call out my name, I'd ask who it belongs to
-Janet Jackson "If"
Beefaroni makes better vom material.
I think at least $1,000,000 of his bail should be for those hay-noose eyebrows.
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The pair of moobs that makes a cameo at the 0:45 second was an interesting surprise - MK
Submitted by parissucksliterally on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:24pm.
My friend and i went home with a car mechanic once. We smoked pot with him. We were 17. He got in the shower, and I got a bad feeling. I told my friend we had to leave NOW. When he got out of the shower I told him I spoke to my Mom and we had to go, and we split. We got lucky. I still don't know if this guy was harmless, or if he called a friend to come over too, and had plans for us.....
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I would have just left while he was in the shower if I got that feeling! Fuck, no need to explain!
Haha, but I actually met a boyfriend in that creepy way....my first day in Hawaii on vaycay, I was 18 and an adorable blonde surfer creepily asked me if i wanted to go to his place and get high! He was all "I don't have any here, but I have some at home, I swear!"
I sure did want to get high, so I went. Best sex ever, best weed ever, and the relationship tapered into the next couple of years. Sometimes creepy scary shit can lead to hot times!
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Dang, I think I might vomit spaghetti.
BTW, who is Mary Murphy? Should I know?
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The pair of moobs that makes a cameo at the 0:45 second was an interesting surprise - MK
@joe: o yeah - I missed those dates too...that is pretty spread out over time...
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Submitted by Mr. President on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:26pm.
Submitted by angel_i on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:21pm.
Submitted by joe shmoe on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:17pm.
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Hehehehehehhee...Mr Prez!!!!!! I'm shocked! Not.
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Submitted by angel_i on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:21pm.
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Yeah I guess..although this happened over a period of a year. I've sat through too many sexual assault trials to automatically assume anything. I've seen so-called victims lie and I've seen accused people lie. If these women have banded together to get back at him hopefully they'll get sorted pretty quickly by the cops.
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Submitted by parissucksliterally on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:24pm.
My friend and i went home with a car mechanic once. We smoked pot with him. We were 17. He got in the shower, and I got a bad feeling. I told my friend we had to leave NOW. When he got out of the shower I told him I spoke to my Mom and we had to go, and we split. We got lucky.
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That ain't lucky. That's smart. Well, a little of each cuz y'all should have left while he was in there...but still.
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Submitted by parissucksliterally on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:24pm.
My friend and i went home with a car mechanic once. We smoked pot with him. We were 17. He got in the shower, and I got a bad feeling. I told my friend we had to leave NOW. When he got out of the shower I told him I spoke to my Mom and we had to go, and we split. We got lucky. I still don't know if this guy was harmless, or if he called a friend to come over too, and had plans for us.....
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OMG, that was YOU? My brother wondered what happened to you guys!
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Submitted by angel_i on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:21pm.
Submitted by joe shmoe on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:17pm.
Which is why I'm pretty safe from any rape accusations. Any girl that falls for the "wanna come to my place for a pizza and a fuck" line should definitely know what she's getting herself into. What? You don't like pizza?
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"I think we'll need some more FBI guys."
My friend and i went home with a car mechanic once. We smoked pot with him. We were 17. He got in the shower, and I got a bad feeling. I told my friend we had to leave NOW. When he got out of the shower I told him I spoke to my Mom and we had to go, and we split. We got lucky. I still don't know if this guy was harmless, or if he called a friend to come over too, and had plans for us.....
this guy is a creep.
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If I was your girl, the things I'd do to you
I'd make you call out my name, I'd ask who it belongs to
-Janet Jackson "If"
Submitted by joe shmoe on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:17pm.
Submitted by angel_i on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:10pm.
The four women said Alex lured them back to his house in North Hollywood, tricked them into going into his bedroom..
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Yeah, I know what you're saying,(I think!) but I think you have to put it in perspective. If his students were young - or not even young, but trusting and gullible and if he's a master manipulator, it would be easy to con women into going into the bedroom.
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I guess I didn't automatically assume they were young. And I TOTALLY understand what you're saying too - becuz that shameful shit goes on all the time. I'm just saying that I know the other thing that goes on too is when four girls find out they fucked the same guy in the same week - they get pissed off
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Submitted by Pauly Shore on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:18pm.
Submitted by Sugaroo on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:13pm.
Why lookee who's here! Gimme back my Spock doll, you perv!
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I'm sorry my dear. I can't do that. He's my bitch now.
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You know, I just can't..........Can't................Man, you ain't right!
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Submitted by Sugaroo on Sun, 04/05/2009 - 7:13pm.
Why lookee who's here! Gimme back my Spock doll, you perv!
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I'm sorry my dear. I can't do that. He's my bitch now.